Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Heading Home...

Since all things, good and bad, come to an end, the conference in Milwaukee ended and our excuse to escape Flint ended. So, while Thomas dozed Sunday morning, I packed up our things and got ready to go. Thomas had mentioned on Saturday that he felt a bit cheated as we "didn't do much." I pointed out that attending the conference, though that mostly involved sitting, listening, and eating fruit salad and buns, was, strictly speaking, "doing something." He admitted that he loved seeing the Taggart family Friday night--especially, for some reason, the "lounge areas" scattered around Sturge and Barb's house. And seeing Steve's salt tank/business was an experience not to be matched anytime soon but, over all, he was disappointed. Apparently every day should be a thrill, not just Friday. So, not hopeful, I promised to check the map for something interesting to visit on the way home.
To my amazement there is a national park (Dunes Coast National Park, or something like that) just outside of Gary, Indiana which is, in my opinion, easily one of the top five ugliest cities in the world. But, about 20 minutes outside the city limits, all we had to do was cut off the interstate and head straight north for about 8 miles and lo and behold, here we were:
Apparently (if the park literature is to be believed) it has one of the world's largest "moving dunes." (Aren't all dunes, strictly speaking, moving?) At the left (just above the fences) you can see a bit of industrial wasteland but that isn't Gary. Gary is over to the right of that and Chicago is farther to the right, almost at the edge of the picture. (Click on the picture to enlarge it and you should be able to see the city skylines.) They look pretty here but they aren't.
This is an old Pavillion that is falling to bits. The faded signs claim that there are "treats" and "gifts" for sale, but the peeling paint implied otherwise. There were bathrooms open (scary bathrooms) but all other rooms were boarded up.
I think this is Mountain Tom. [I say "I think" because the map of the park was very hard to interpret--perhaps because these dunes are always moving around?] It doesn't look so impressive in the picture but just try and climb up it. Every 3 feet you move forward, you slide 2 1/2 feet back. It is exhausting.
Climbing down is a lot more fun--sort of like skiing on sand in tennis shoes. Except that your shoes get filled with sand and cause serious pain. As always with beaches, the sand in the sun was baking hot and the sand in the shade was painfully cold.
Thomas learns how to "break the grip of the rip." I think the better lesson to learn is simply to not swim at all--it's just too dangerous.
I suppose I am glad I went to the conference. It was organized by AutCom (the largest Activist Organization for Autistics) and a lot of people from various walks of life were there. I got a much clearer sense of what music therapy is and isn't doing, for example. I also learned that the theory of "stunty dendrites" is old news (a research study that make big headlines because it alleged that there is an Austistic Brain) because the research has not been replicable and, it seems, the study itself is looking increasingly suspect. The best (verifiable) explanation now is that autistics "wire up" their neural pathways in patterns that are utterly unlike an NT's (neural typicals), even unlike other autists pathways. The effect is both delays (as the brain has to seemingly endlessly process information when retrieving something as simple as the answer to "Are you hungry?" but also opens possibilities for amazingly interesting and creative thinking. [One source of violent debate is in reaction to the Old School claim that autists cannot understand metaphor. The New School claim is that autists invented metaphor. After all, if your brain didn't take a pit stop to colors while on its way to retrieve the name of a day of the week, how could you ever come up with "a blue Monday"? You can see how the issues become exhausting. If it didn't matter so much, I would stop trying to figure it all out.]

Thursday, October 14, 2010

On The Road Again...

Bored with Flint, Thomas and I set out for Milwaukee this morning. I registered to attend an AutCom conference in Milwaukee and, when I told Thomas about it a few months ago, he said he desperately wanted to attend. (WHY he wanted to attend, other than to miss a few days of school, is beyond me.) It's 369.9 miles from the end of our driveway to the hotel parking lot and we made it in about 6 hours, and that was with some white knuckle driving through the outskirts of Milwaukee. (Signs everywhere promised that the face lift the 50 year old freeway was getting would be complete by the end of 2010 but, given the work that seems to need to be done and that snow will be flying in a few weeks, I am skeptical.) But we made it. And here Thomas enjoys checking out the latest additions on YouTube. (Note Yoshi on corner of desk.)
Here is our room--a space so FANTASTIC that Thomas is uneasy about walking around without shoes on. (I think the logic is that shoe wearing is more formal than simply sock wearing and formal digs require formal attire.) I don't see the AMAZINGNESS myself, but I am glad he is excited.
Thomas whooped and hollered with joy when he saw the pink toilet...
...and the not quite matching tub. The tile is...odd.
Free stuff!
Here is the view from the hotel room. We are right across from the airport and the local sights are pretty hideous. If you click on the photo it will enlarge and you will be able to see the Denny's where we went for a snack. I had a yogurt and tea and Thomas has a giant slab of Belgium waffle with two side dishes of fruit. He had the right to eggs but, rather mysteriously said to the waitress that he "didn't care" if he got them, so he didn't. And, true to his word, he didn't seem to care in the least.
Here is looking the other way, and you can just see the single golden arch of the nearby McDonald's which must date back several decades since the single Golden Arch is long passe.
The conference doesn't start until tomorrow morning at 8:30, when we register and eat a "continental breakfast." I told Thomas that someone would probably be talking while we ate, as "Introductions" is listed on the program to take place at the same time. He thought I was pulling his leg. I also told him that he could do his homework while we sat together in the talks but he didn't believe that, either. I'm not sure what he thinks is going to happen. He did attend a conference with Simon in Alaska and only has a vague idea of what that was about--he asked me during the drive if people would be talking about vampires or werewolves "like that did at that conference daddy took me to." I said it was unlikely, unless they were autistic vampires. That seemed to make him feel slightly more at ease. (What WERE they doing up there in Alaska?) And now, as the sun sets, we are going to tuck into a mean session of Minecraft and there isn't anything anyone can do about it. (Did you know you can gather clay and fire pottery and get sheep to collect wool in Minecraft? IMAGINE the possibilities!!!)

My baby's back!

Finally! After 3 weeks and 2 loaner cars (a Chevy Impala and a Honda Civic) I get my car back. Yay!

Sunday, October 10, 2010

Frederick the polar bear

It got up to 75 degrees (F, of course) today, so we went to the beach, and Frederick could not be restrained from actually SWIMMING. The water was ICY - I consented to paddle in my swimsuit (and actually got a sunburnt neck) but there was no way in hell I was going to let that water get above my knees. He swam for a good 20 minutes, however, and wasn't even shivering. I think the idea of people swimming had not even occurred to Those In Charge, because not only were there no beach guards, they've even pulled up the little buoys which were in place all Summer to stop people going out too far. (And they were serious - Thomas, Jimmy and I witnessed a poor slob hauled off in handcuffs for going out past them!)
Afterwards, we played in the playground and Frederick showed off his balancing skills.

Friday, October 8, 2010

Balmy weather

Just when I thought it was time to light a fire every night, we got another heatwave. Fortunately, it's still cool at night, so we don't have to re-install all the air conditioners, but it means that walks are pleasant, even evening ones. First, to For-Mar, where there are strange goings-on:



Apparently they're going to build a new bridge. The old one vanished about six years ago, and I thought we'd never see another, because it was rumoured to be too expensive. But apparently Obama's stimulus money is trickling down...


Now on to Bluebell Beach. Frederick had to be talked out of swimming. It was balmy, but not THAT balmy.

Click for the full panorama effect!

An old friend.

Star Wars!

As regular readers might know, Thomas is part of two separate music groups this year: Wind Ensemble (where he plays bassoon) and Philharmonia (percussion). He prefers the former, which is more of an honor, particularly as he is the youngest one there, but has committed to the latter. One plus of Philharmonia is their programme this year, that includes...

Sunday, September 19, 2010

An Autumn Sunday in Flint


Autumn is finally upon us! Which means that Frederick's and my weekend-ly walk from our house to my office, which takes us across various parts of the campus of Mott Community College and past the College Cultural Center (which includes the Flint Institutes of Art [where Jami has learned pottery, weaving, mosaicking et. al.] and Music [where Thomas has learned percussion, piano and bassoon] and one of the only planetariums [planetaria?] in the state) will be at its most pleasant. Particularly as it has stopped bucketing with rain.

Companion on our trip this week was Frederick's new froggy pal.


Here he hops happily along the edges of one of the parking garages of Mott Community College.

Here's the old Central High School, closed last year. That big chimney used to be part of a welding lab, but that was closed long ago.

From the top of the other MCC parking garage you can see the FIA and planetarium.

It seems that every other week in Flint we have a classic car show of some sort. I had no idea this would be happening - they must advertise them on The Fogey Channel on television or something.

Neither is true of Frederick, actually. But we love him just the same.

Would You Deny Him an Education?

I have been seeing my doctor every Tuesday evening since June 1st for weight loss business (more about that some other time) and every week she asks how things are going and, among other things, takes my blood pressure. After the first week of school, she remarked that my blood pressure had gone up noticeably from what it was during the summer. This past week she said, as she got out the cuff, "This week MUST have been better." Well, it wasn't, and neither was my blood pressure. (The arteries don't lie--this was a shitty week.) This past Friday Simon and I started the day with a meeting with Frederick's teacher, the school principal and Emily. (When we asked where Frederick would be during all this and, more importantly, who would be with him, they said, "Oh. We hadn't thought of that." Thank God for Thomas.) The meeting was allegedly a chance for us to meet and discuss "how things were going for Frederick," as well as to pass around suggestions. Frederick's teacher's only suggestion was that, since she wasn't certain what level he was with math, it made sense to her to have him go home when they get to the math part of the day (which is at 1:00). Or, perhaps, having him go home right after lunch might be EVEN BETTER since sometimes he didn't seem to "get much" out of gym class, either. (This is in reference to one day when the gym teacher organized a kick ball game with all kids aged 4 through 10.) I asked if the other small kids in his class "got much" out of that gym class. She admitted that they probably did not. But were they expected to simply leave? Was that a sign that they were uneducatable? No, of course not.

Given that we have NO OPTIONS for Frederick, this is what we must work with. Emily, Simon and I discussed everything at length after school when Frederick happily came home to lark about the house and yard. We've all decided that the only sensible way to deal with this is for Emily to take in to school all the curriculum materials she and Frederick have been working with all summer and then merge with the classmates for art, French, music, snack time, lunch and recess outside. As for academics, it seems that Frederick and Emily are on their own. Here Frederick enjoys a bowl of strawberries while lying in his parents' bed on a not-so-sunny (Sunday) afternoon. He's happy to be home.