So, since then, Thomas and I have spent about 2-3 hours every other evening working on his room, picking a section and either bagging things up for the garbage, or boxing it for Goodwill, or crating it for our basement. So far we have bagged up 10 (!) giant sacks of garbage bags (mostly old homework exercise books dating back 8 years but a lot of other crap as well). I was astonished at how unsentimental Thomas is unlike a certain someone in the house. Simon was told he was ABSOLUTELY NOT allowed to search through the bags to see what was being thrown away--it was eating him alive, though, I could tell. Thomas also boxed up 5 tubs of books for Future Frederick and we donated MANY things that Thomas decided were "inappropriate" for Frederick.
Each evening after we've worked for 2 or 3 hours, Thomas decides that he "needs to rest" (though what he actually seems to be doing is poring over some old drawings of his he forgot he had and is getting lost in the marvelousness of his own sense of humour. He tries to explain it to me, but I usually don't appreciate it enough.) He then shoos me out of the room and I can hear him cackling away at his own comics well into the wee hours. If Thomas didn't make such a meal of it, we would have been done days ago but he is really dragging this out. But we are almost done: just the blue room closet and the blue room floor remain.
I'm still skeptical the room is "family room" material, and I can't imagine doing much studying with Thomas playing his "shoot-em-ups" in the next room (or laughing hysterically as he is wont to do when he plays video games, though he insists he does no such thing) but the clean up was massively productive and got Thomas out of a depressive slump, so I think it was a success nonetheless. As for the REST of the house...
Here is the one thing Thomas will NEVER throw away:

1 comment:
It's impressive. Both mine did that ruthless thing about age 12. Onset of adolescence maybe?
xM
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